Indulgence - Shama Helena

Indulgence – Impact of Sexual Abuse

billschiffler — Wed, 11 Jul 2012 04:00:32 +0000

Helena shares the studio with John Tierney, sexual abuse survivor with a Priestly twist. They intimately explore his life adventure in recovery. What is the impact of Sexual Abuse? How did the Catholic Church respond? John shares his new outreach program for Abuse Survivors 2MillionHealing.org.

Indulgence – Discrimination or Sex – Gay Marriage?

billschiffler — Wed, 04 Jul 2012 04:01:50 +0000

Helena interviews Gay Activist and LA Leader, Gay Ann Bruno of the now famous podcast, “Between The Sheets.” What is it like to be Gay in LA in 2012? … internet matchups, relationships, coming out, Gay marriage, activisim and boob jobs

Between the Sheets : http://www.hottalkla.com/htla/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&layout=blog&id=63&Itemid=228

Plenty of Fish: http://www.pof.com/

Freedom to Marry: http://www.freedomtomarry.org/

Indulgence – Adventures in Relationship

billschiffler — Wed, 27 Jun 2012 04:01:07 +0000

Helena visits with Relationship Adventurer and Guru, John Hill. Be careful what you wish for! Here’s a guy in his 60′s who manifested his dream triad with two 20- something gorgeous blondes! How did he do it?

How did it work out?

With his unique approach to love and connection, John shares his passion for what he believes is essential in relationship — the TRUTH
– current projects on the relationship edge, how you can get involved… and maybe you can join with John and Shama on their next project together!

http://www.authenticsharing.com

Indulgence – Why Extended Orgasm

billschiffler — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 04:01:57 +0000

Helena explores the profound sexual journey of Dr. Patricia Taylor that made her THE expert on everything you ever wanted to know about extended orgasm via her Doctoral Study! Why? How?Health, intimacy, and even spiritual benefits! And even more importantly, tips to successfully seduce your woman!

Indulgence – Sexy Healthy

billschiffler — Wed, 18 Apr 2012 04:01:54 +0000

There are lots of people saying lots of things about how sex is healthy for you, sperm has nutritional and health benefits, Amrita (Female Ejaculate) has healing properties, orgasms are an important part of a healthy lifestye… but where’s the data? Helena hasn’t been able to find much medical support information, but she has a great time exploring the possibilities. Is all this hype about the health benefits of sperm for real, or just another PR sales job from the Council on sperm sales? She discovers how little info is available on Women’s sexual juices. And what about orgasms? Helena also explores the many variables to consider when addressing menopause for men and for women. And Helena answers a listener question about feeling stuck in BDSM play.

Indulgence – Everything You Wanted To Know About Ejaculation

billschiffler — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 04:01:27 +0000

Did you know that both men AND WOMEN ejaculate? Helena and Tantric Magician, Donald Michael Kraig explore the magick of Ejaculatory Mastery for men, and the power of Ejaculation for Women. Are there really health benefits? What is a full body orgasm? Discover the secret to higher Sex, slow down, breathe, focusing only on the pleasure and expand your possibilities to a totally different paradigm of sensuality and sexuality. Wha does that mean? Eradicate performance Anxiety. And Ladies, it’s okay to let it flow.

Indulgence – What Gender?

billschiffler — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 14:30:19 +0000

Helena talks with Dr. Gloria Brame –the kinky sexologist and author about what’s going on in the sexology world around thoughts on gender identity issues – what is this in-between-ness that we seem to be hearing more and more about these days. Is this a modern trend? What is actually creating our sexual identity crisis? And Helena talks with Listener Yaz, who was born with an extra chromosome and has been back and forth in both genders more than once! They talk about how to handle the transition from one identification to another to avoid pitfalls, and new empowered ways of experiencing the process.

Indulgence – Dating & Breaking Up

billschiffler — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 04:01:06 +0000

Has dating become passe? Can breakups be amicable? Helena shares her ideas on how to navigate the wild wonders of New Relationship Energy and keep your sanity when the love bug strikes. Why limit your explorations in dating? What is wrong with our dating rituals? Make one special agreement that can ensure greater longevity in your relationship. What is the best recipe for breaking up and even maintaining good relations beyond?

Indulgence – Jealousy: The Green Eyed Monster?

billschiffler — Wed, 21 Mar 2012 04:01:44 +0000

Jealousy – friend or foe? Helena with Hypnotherapist and poly activist Terry Brussel take on this potentially destructive force and explore the challenges and opportunities that this basic… [Listen Now...]

Indulgence – Rush To Judgement

billschiffler — Wed, 14 Mar 2012 04:44:23 +0000

Helena responds to all the fun with Rush Limbaugh this week and Sex and Politics. Does the government have any business in our bedrooms? Do any of the current political agendas make any sense? Are we headed for a Fempocalypse? – there is only one conclusion – you may be surprised. Helena responds to listener letters… what to do when your partner isn’t interested in sex?!?!

Indulgence – Awakening Manhood

billschiffler — Wed, 07 Mar 2012 05:01:11 +0000

With the traditional roles for the sexes morphing, there is a lot of confusion for both sexes. Men are discovering aspects of themselves that have been previously denied them in our culture, but how to integrate them? Helena and Ed Fell explore taking masculinity beyond the the traditional strong and silent type into passion, integrity, aliveness and into their full power through the heart in relationship and the Mankind Project.

Indulgence – Madame De Sade

billschiffler — Wed, 29 Feb 2012 05:01:28 +0000

Notorious Dominatrix, Terri-Jean Bedford, the infamous Madame De Sade has been at the forefront for women’s empowerment in Toronto Canada in changing the laws governing Prostitution for the Crown — where prostitution may be legalized, but the laws surrounding interfere with the ability to practice the profession in personal safety. Coming from the school of hard knocks, discover how this amazing woman has transcended her origins to play the ultimate power exchange game with the highest courts in the land!

Links:
terrijeanbedford.blogspot.com/

http://DominatrixOnTrial.com

twitter.com/Madame_deSade

www.facebook.com/terrijeanbedford

http://dominatrixontrial.com/

Indulgence – Autism & Relationships

billschiffler — Wed, 22 Feb 2012 05:01:03 +0000

Diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, a form of high functioning Autism, Listener, Sean wonders if this is interfering with his ability to sustain relationships with women. Helena and her guest, Speech Pathologist, Sue Diamond explore the special challenges in relating skills that the syndrome typifies and show Sean some special and surprisingly easy basic tips and tools for more effective social lubrication and skills that we all could use!

Links:

www.diamondlanguage.com/

www.amazon.com/Social+Rules+For+Kids

Indulgence – Grow & Glow

billschiffler — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 00:01:14 +0000

Helena explores the greatest secret to sexual attraction there is…
That inner glow that comes from within — for gals and guys!. Often we “glow” when new love comes in or when pregnant, But this glow is an essential ingredient to beginning that magnetic attractor beam in the first place. Of course it begins with the self – and guest Miriam Serman has found the secret and she shares how YOU can create it for yourself NOW and from NOW on…..

Links:

Miriam Serman: Heartwaveyoga.com

Esther Hicks: Abraham-Hicks.com

TedxConejo: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QR7pn3aa97g

Indulgence – One Man’s Tantra

billschiffler — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 00:01:01 +0000

Helena explores Tantra with Michael Mirdad, author of”Introduction to Tantra & Sacred Sexuality”. Covering what are some of the basic approaches to experience sacred sexuality,.. why is “hot sex” actually cold? What makes sex sacred?… Tantric sessions are not about having sex with the instructor! How to discover the greater depths of feeling in sex and more!

Links: http://www.grailproductions.com/

Indulgence – Honesty or Hypocrisy?

billschiffler — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 00:01:00 +0000

The hubub around the Newt and his denied “Open Marriage” proposal has sparked a lot of discussion. Is it true that we prefer to lie about our true sexual activities? Is the pain of betrayal preferable to talking/negotiating about needs not being met? Helena also responds to a listener’s dilemma — he was seduced by his girlfriend’s sister at her engagement party! Should he tell his girlfriend?

Links:

1 NY Times Article: http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2012/01/20/the-gingrich-question-cheating-vs-open-marriage/voters-prefer-newt-gingrichs-adultery-to-open-marriage
2. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16657620
3.http://www.alternet.org/newsandviews/article/766187/jon_stewart’s_epic_takedown_of_newt_gingrich’s_hypocrisy/
4.http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2011/01/conservative-fear-mainstreaming-of.html
5. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8n5O9tz30So&feature=share
6. http://www.TheRelatingRevolution.com

Indulgence – Modernizing Marriage

billschiffler — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 00:48:37 +0000

Helena and her BFF Reverend Genevieve Coleman explore where Marriage has been and how it’s evolving. Married over 20 times to the same man MarryMeMore.com, she specializes in weddings & renewals and has seen it all! Great relationships begin with personal empowerment and responsibility http://www.therelatingrevolution.com/challenging_situation_worksheet.html, GoddessCamp.com and mankindproject.org. Which traditions are still working and which aren’t? What are the new trends? How to shift from a fear based institution used to control one another to a free foundation of loving support. Understanding the nature and need for agreements and alignment in the important areas – the value of using checkllists alt.com/p/help.cgi. Guilt free breakups.

Indulgence – The Erection Equation

billschiffler — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 22:51:50 +0000

Discover the pleasures of every phase of your Man’s penile proclivities! Helena covers everything you wanted to know about erections… from prostate health to penis worship to erectile dysfunction, how to’s for mismatched genitals and sharing feelings for intimacy. Plus tips for guys to get along better with a wayward member!

Indulgence – Where’s My Orgasm?

billschiffler — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 00:01:24 +0000

You ARE having orgasms ~ even if you think you are not! Helena explains what an orgasm really is and how to have more in many more places than just your genitals. AND Helena supports a listener on the show who experienced an incestuous early sexual awakening with resultant pleasure limitations, to uncover her hidden orgasms and how to expand her possibilities to create new ones.

Indulgence – Tips, Dips, & Flips

billschiffler — Wed, 04 Jan 2012 00:01:57 +0000

Helena offers tips for making New Year’s Resolutions that work. Discover how you can be on the show and have Helena answer your question! Responses to Listener questions: Exploring adult sexuality and Catholicism; About Female Ejaculation. Listen for your Special Gift: How to tell your partner I appreciate you! Compassionate Communication Script (3 pages)!

Indulgence – “Holiday Stress Relief & Discovering The Sacred”

billschiffler — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 00:01:08 +0000

The holidays don’t have to be hectic! Here’s some stress relief ideas to reclaim the sacredness of the season and renew that sense of excitement in your relationships. Helena responds to listener’s questions how to handle a partner who is jealous of friends, and successful way to support each other in changing relationship patterns.

Indulgence – “Downsized & Cheating” with Helena & Her Mate Gordon

billschiffler — Wed, 21 Dec 2011 00:01:39 +0000

In the current economy, many have lost their homes and more — Helena and her partner have as well! With their relationship on the brink, and everything else they had built together, discover how they reclaimed themselves, each other and took their love to a new level. Next, a listener asks Helena, “My partner has cheated, should I call it quits?” Listen to Helena’s practical and surprising response!

Links:
http://www.therelatingrevolution.com

Indulgence – “Better Sex Through Body Chemistry” with Duane Law, L.Ac.

billschiffler — Wed, 14 Dec 2011 00:01:30 +0000

Restore optimum health and feel your best for optimal performance in the bedroom! Boost your brain, pleasure, fun, moods, libido, metabolism, up-level your health and empower yourself by learning more about how your body chemistry works so that you can supplement as needed. Duane Law, a Naturopath and Acupuncturist reveals secrets of powerful, cheap, safe and effective mood-lifting nutrients that are close as the shelves of the nearest health food store in his new book, “Before Meds, After Meds, Complementary And Alternative Medicine for Anxiety & Depression”. Check out Duane’s book here.

Indulgence – Life After Death, Love Ever After, Sex After Death

billschiffler — Wed, 07 Dec 2011 00:01:32 +0000

Guest Jerry Weinstock – Author, Lover, Entrepreneur, Grief Connoisseur
In his new memoir, I. J. Weinstock claims that his late wife made love to him from the after life to heal his grief. Share his amazing and unbelievable journey.

Website: http://dreamasterbooks.com/joyride/

Email: DreaMasterBooks@gmail.com

Books:

Love Ever After, Joy Mitchell
Sexy At Seventy, Joy Mitchell
The Breast Book, I.J. Weinstock
The Secret Sex Life Of Angels, J.I. Weinstock

Indulgence – “The Demon’s Marriage & Porn”

billschiffler — Wed, 30 Nov 2011 00:00:02 +0000

Guest Will Taliesen Jarvis – Porn Star, Author and Activist for Sexual Freedom. We review the Gene Simmons marriage – has he lost his cajones? What’s it like to be… [Listen Now...]

Indulgence – “Indulge Yourself….”

billschiffler — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 00:11:12 +0000

The virgin voyage Of Indulgence with Helena. Indulgence in personal pleasure… Relaxation, self-pleasuring, self love. Is it okay? Why do some think it is not? How much is… [Listen Now...]