| Back the Fuck off, I’m afraid you are getting too close Why do we push away intimacy, connection, and love? Our minds are so protective of us. There is a powerful defense mechanism that’s only mission is to keep us safe from harm. Trauma has four distinct response styles; Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn. These responses are many times why we have trouble relating. In this episode, I rant, rave and find the understanding of why we push away love, even when it’s what we what and surely need. |